I don’t know about you, but for me the past week has been exhausting. So much emotion. Tough and necessary conversations. I’m grateful for progress made, in my own heart, and in society. I pray momentum carries us forward toward positive change.
I’m taking a couple of days to re-center my mind. I have to recharge. In order to continue to pursue the things I need to pursue, I need a day or two of emotional and spiritual rest.
Lately I have become the list queen. I have notebooks with hand written lists. I have apps on my phone for electronic lists.
Perhaps I have a problem.
Like, oh, everyone on the planet, since the pandemic hit we’ve had to put all our major life plans on hold. We should have been hitting the road for our full time RV life about now. But since COVID-19 has changed the way we all live life, we’ve put our RV plans on hold. Well, not really on hold, but we’re at a stand still until the shelter at home orders are no longer necessary.
This means I’m doing endless research. Endless online RV shopping. And, yes, making endless lists.
Lists of things we will need before we drive the RV off the dealer’s lot.
Lists of things we will need before we hit the road.
Lists of things I think we will eventually want to have.
Lists of what I hope our timeline will be. This one is subject to change without notice.
Honestly, I started making these lists as a way to feel like I was making progress toward our RV goals. But now, after all these weeks, it’s becoming a monster.
Is there a (internet based only-I honor social distancing recs) group for maniac list makers?
I get that making lists is a tool, a good one. Very helpful most of the time. But when list-making gets out of control it’s ugly y’all. Seriously.
Downsizing from a 1200 square foot sticks and bricks home to a Class B RV that is only 22 feet long overwhelms me, if I’m honest. We’ve lived in this house since the first weekend of January 2004. Lots of stuff accumulates in that amount of time. Not to mention the stuff from the six years of marriage before we bought our house.
When we decided to downsize and move into an RV full time we knew we had to purge our belongings. We knew we had to be brutal. We knew we couldn’t look at anything through the lens of nostalgia or sentimentality. We knew it would be a lot of work. And, y’all, I mean A LOT OF WORK.
Thinking about downsizing our whole house sends me into a panic. Seriously. I’m not a panic-y kind of person usually. But I did some hardcore hyperventilating the first time we sorted through our kitchen junk drawer. I couldn’t stay focused on the drawer. In my mind that one drawer morphed into an entire house of kitchen junk drawers dancing around me and mocking me. My heart raced. I broke out into a sweat. After Daniel and I went through that drawer I had to stop. It completely drained me.
But other people have done this. People do this every day. Lots of people go through their stuff and declutter at least once a year. How do they start? How do they survive the anxiety and panic? I’m learning how, and I’m going to share it with you.
Remember the old cliché: How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time. It’s that simple and that difficult.
How do you downsize a lifetime from a sticks and bricks house to a camper van? One bite at a time.
Pick one spot, one drawer, one shelf. Daniel and I had the right idea starting with one drawer. I just had to learn to narrow my focus. Instead of thinking about what comes after that drawer and the next one and the next one and the next one, think only about that one drawer. Set that one drawer as the goal. Not the whole house or even the whole room.
Another technique that works for me, especially for spaces larger than a drawer, is to set the timer on my phone for 30 minutes. Purge stuff like mad for 30 minutes. When the timer buzzes, stop. Take a break. Go for a walk. Drink some water. Do 15 minutes of yoga. If you have time after your break, purge for another 30 minutes. So on and so forth.
That’s how I faced cleaning out the closet in our spare room this morning.
In 30 minutes, the closet went from this (which I’m truly embarrassed to share publicly):
From that closet, I took two trash bags full of paper and plastic to the recycle bin. I took a handful of garbage out. Daniel took a box of stuff to Goodwill. I did keep my mother’s old sewing machine which I’ll store at Dad’s house for now. I also have a quilting frame that I will sell. But all of that took 30 minutes. Yes, that room is still a disaster. But that closet, that one space, is clear. It’s done. I don’t have to think about it again.
The 30 minute rule works really well for me. Some people suggest 15 minutes. Others suggest an hour. Find the time limit that works for you. Break it down to small chunks. Focus only on that chunk, no more. Then take a break before facing another chunk.
Do you have any special ways to deal with decluttering? What works well for you? Do you declutter on a schedule? Or are you like Daniel and me, facing years of clutter with only a few months to go through it all?
I need to get in shape. I need to get healthy. I need to lose 60 pounds. (YIKES!!) Can’t believe I’m going to post this picture publicly, but here goes.
I feel like I look like a big whale in that photo. YUCK!!!
I’ve been walking a couple of miles 3-4 days per week, but that’s not enough. I need to eat better. Way better. Yeah, my grocery list for tomorrow’s shopping looks a little bit different.
But breakfast is the difficult meal. I’m not hungry when I first get up. I don’t have much time in the mornings to prepare breakfast. I need some help coming up with ideas for a quick breakfast that is healthy, preferably high in protein.
Help! What have you got? What’s your go to healthy, high protein breakfast for busy mornings?